人情冷暖
稍為空閒的日子，想的事情便多了。
不止一個香港朋友問過我，離開兩年怕不怕被人忘記。我只有一個答案：有甚麼好怕? 大不了一切重頭來過。
當然，我知道在這個年紀、這個階段、這個關口，重頭來過並非易事。可是，我亦對自己的工作能力、經驗、知識，仍有信心。
然而，香港始終是一處得走較別人快的地方。
快得近乎無情。
這段日子，不少朋友都對我關心及問候。不過，亦有少量朋友，Email沒應、電話沒接、留言沒覆、SMS沒回。
為什麼呢?
我猜..........
就因為那是香港。
在國內，真的有些人會在稍為有空的時候 (例如近來接近暑假) 從某省老遠去到另一省，為的只是探望一下幾個舊朋友。
人情冷暖，就是如此。
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Hey Shirly and Ting Ting:
Got your wedding card, thank you.
The first impression: Cute!
Second impression: Heehee, Beauty and the Beast!
I can't leave any command in your wedding blog there, Yahoo does not let me leave any message there, I guess, for I do not have a yahoo blog account.
Just want to send my blessing from the bottom my heart via the internet. I pray that God bless this marriage, fill it with love, joy and happiness and lots of good children.
Wedding here is very different. The new couple is the highest priority, and they are supposed treat like kings and queens by their friends and relatives. We don't have so much little cultural things to work do. As long as the couples are happy, who cares kind of attitude. Except one thing, the wedding ring is absoutely necessary. Our pastors and mentors told us that keep wearing the wedding ring, and no unnecessary diseases would come.
Shirley, your instructor at the workshop must be talking about the best selling American book in marriage "His needs, Her needs", somehow, I do not buy the entire the concept, a theory is a theory. May I suggest COMMITTMENT. For better or for best, in health and wealth ... committment pulls couples through these great times.
Btw, I am not a pastor, it happens that I sound like one.
GOD BLESS YOU TWO! All the best.
kK2 for Toronto
「伴我同行」有句對白大意是這樣：洋人只有人情，没有味。我們中國人是有「人情味」
其實香港生活甚極洋化，可多情，難有味。
這味還好在國內村鎮仍容易享用到，實望不要消失。
明天晚上我便帶着孩子前往湖南老婆家鄉渡假享用「人情味」，為期一星期。「桃花源」一票我必堅持到29日下午5時才有最後决定，若面對面可以等，若我决定放棄。定必將戲票送贈。
Excuse me Sir.
Could you please expain what kind of "taste" that Western people lack of? Could you please kindly explain exactly what that "taste" is? Thanks ahead of your help.
I cannot understand. How about Morrie from Tuesdays with Morrie, he got "taste"?
I have personally seen a lot of Morries in U.S.A.
Have you seen the professor in Virgina in news; just the past winter, who gave up his life to save his students, and eventually he did save some of them, but he died with bullets all over his body.
Have you seen Billy Graham? Do you know how he upset he got when he see street kids without parents taking care of them?
I have seen how many HK people scolded American, stereotyped then as greedy people. And they are so easy going that they jump from bed to bed. A lot of them are, but a lot of them are not!!!!!!
Of course, there are Western people who a simply lovers, for example, Clinton. And extremely stupid ones, for exapmle, Bush Jr.
I have seen many many good Americans, in my humble opinion, they are gentle and loving. They are generous.
I don't go to blogs. I get no time. e-mail me if you don't mind.
kk2cares@yahoo.com
I am very busy. There are lots of youth from mainland China, and I need to teach and guide them what I have learnt from the Americans and how they took care of me, and carry on the good tradition.
Have a great day.
Well, a very good dialogue over my blog.
I believe what "Ordinary Man" comment is his general view for Western people, not for all.
Moreover, his context is based on the situation in HK. His main points are at second paragraph---「其實香港生活甚極洋化，可多情，難有味。」
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哈哈，虧您想得出。
我只是呻下而已，不必擔心。
"這段日子，不少朋友都對我關心及問候。不過，亦有少量朋友，Email沒應、電話沒接、留言沒覆、SMS沒回。"
丁羽，你都識說: 香港始終是一處得走較別人快的地方。 快得近乎無情。
為什麼呢?
我猜..........
就因為那是香港。
That's correct.
Hin Hung
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